Gaybros, those gay men who want to be both and not just the former, are a complex, prickly, still-evolving group. They bewilder queers and LGBTs, who basically call them transphobic and racist. (Except Toronto Gaybros are overrun by Chinese and other “Asians,” by their own admission; point out that they admitted it and they call you a racist.)
I have previously described these guys as looking like engineering students, which many of them are. A helpful poll has revealed what various respondents study in school. Whaddya know: This is the first group of out gay men in human history to be reasonably represented in male-dominated disciplines. (Majors and minors included. Plans and aspirations generally excluded. Some licence taken with course descriptions to collapse them onto set categories [also sometimes impossible]. These are all young fellas and their plans and outcomes will of course vary.)
Male-dominated science and technology professions (71)
Engineering: 13 (the single largest, and largest single, field)
Computer science: 7
Physics: 6
Math: 10
Economics: 6
Biology: 7
Chemistry: 8
Technology (all other than above): 13
Humanities (55)
English: 3
Philosophy: 10
Not lavender languages (6) and linguistics (4)
Humanities (other): 34
Surprises
Nursing: 2
Graphic design: 4
Fashion design: 2
Music: 5
Professions (showing poorly)
Law: 1
Medicine: 2
Business (all): 11
Education (all): 5
Psychology (6) is deemed its own category
What is one incontrovertible conclusion of the research into gay money? If you’re a gay male and you want to earn a living commensurate with your education, duke it out with straight guys in male-dominated professions. I say again: This is the first known cohort of actual gay males demonstrably interested in doing just that.
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The foregoing posting appeared on Joe Clark’s personal Weblog on 2014.05.21 12:56. This presentation was designed for printing and omits components that make sense only onscreen. (If you are seeing this on a screen, then the page stylesheet was not loaded or not loaded properly.) The permanent link is: https://blog.fawny.org/2014/05/21/gaybrosmajors/
Diverging noticeably from the Brazilian Hunks of Instagram archetype is the alleged DJ Rafa Nunes, a Brazilian living in Paris, as seen in the chronicler of all men bony, paunchy, British, or otherwise homely and undistinguished, Meat (first ¶ second). [continue with: Fairest Brazilian →]
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[W]hat’s holding them back is fear of being criticized. Why do you think Gawker is snarkier than I would like? The easy way to insulate yourself against snark is to preëmptively snark. Snark before anybody else does. That’s a kind of classic defensive humor. Make fun of yourself before somebody else does and lower everybody’s expectations.
Growing up in a community of survivors left her permanently thinking about how people find their way to vibrant lives. “In my community there were two groups of people,” she said. “There were the ones who did not die and the ones who came back to life.”
“Sometimes you go elsewhere not because you are not liking the one you are with; you are not liking the person you have become.”
I think until [August: Osage County] I was a pretty closed shop. I kept a great deal in reserve, and I still do. I don’t mean to suggest I’m past that; I still hold a lot inside. I had a friend I was in a play with once, she was not a close friend, and she said to me at one point offhandedly, “Tracy Letts, friend to many, good friend to none.” I had to turn it over and wonder, Is that true? Am I that closed? I can be very generous with people, but sometimes, I don’t know, not so generous with myself.
